Drum Major Instinct
Delivered at Ebenezer Baptist Church, Atlanta, Georgia, on 4 February 1968
This morning I would like to use as a subject from which to preach: "The Drum
Major Instinct." "The Drum Major Instinct." And our text for the morning is
taken from a very familiar passage in the tenth chapter as recorded by Saint
Mark. Beginning with the thirty-fifth verse of that chapter, we read these
words: "And James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came unto him saying, ‘Master,
we would that thou shouldest do for us whatsoever we shall desire.’ And he said
unto them, ‘What would ye that I should do for you?’ And they said unto him,
‘Grant unto us that we may sit, one on thy right hand, and the other on thy left
hand, in thy glory.’ But Jesus said unto them, ‘Ye know not what ye ask: Can ye
drink of the cup that I drink of? and be baptized with the baptism that I am
baptized with?’ And they said unto him, ‘We can.’ And Jesus said unto them, ‘Ye
shall indeed drink of the cup that I drink of, and with the baptism that I am
baptized withal shall ye be baptized: but to sit on my right hand and on my left
hand is not mine to give; but it shall be given to them for whom it is
prepared.’" And then Jesus goes on toward the end of that passage to say, "But
so shall it not be among you: but whosoever will be great among you, shall be
your servant: and whosoever of you will be the chiefest, shall be servant of
all."
The setting is clear. James and John are making a specific request of the
master. They had dreamed, as most of the Hebrews dreamed, of a coming king of
Israel who would set Jerusalem free and establish his kingdom on Mount Zion, and
in righteousness rule the world. And they thought of Jesus as this kind of king.
And they were thinking of that day when Jesus would reign supreme as this new
king of Israel. And they were saying, "Now when you establish your kingdom, let
one of us sit on the right hand and the other on the left hand of your throne."
Now very quickly, we would automatically condemn James and John, and we would
say they were selfish. Why would they make such a selfish request? But before we
condemn them too quickly, let us look calmly and honestly at ourselves, and we
will discover that we too have those same basic desires for recognition, for
importance. That same desire for attention, that same desire to be first. Of
course, the other disciples got mad with James and John, and you could
understand why, but we must understand that we have some of the same James and
John qualities. And there is deep down within all of us an instinct. It's a kind
of drum major instinct—a desire to be out front, a desire to lead the parade, a
desire to be first. And it is something that runs the whole gamut of life.
And so before we condemn them, let us see that we all have the drum major
instinct. We all want to be important, to surpass others, to achieve
distinction, to lead the parade. Alfred Adler, the great psychoanalyst, contends
that this is the dominant impulse. Sigmund Freud used to contend that sex was
the dominant impulse, and Adler came with a new argument saying that this quest
for recognition, this desire for attention, this desire for distinction is the
basic impulse, the basic drive of human life, this drum major instinct.
And you know, we begin early to ask life to put us first. Our first cry as a
baby was a bid for attention. And all through childhood the drum major impulse
or instinct is a major obsession. Children ask life to grant them first place.
They are a little bundle of ego. And they have innately the drum major impulse
or the drum major instinct.
Now in adult life, we still have it, and we really never get by it. We like to
do something good. And you know, we like to be praised for it. Now if you don't
believe that, you just go on living life, and you will discover very soon that
you like to be praised. Everybody likes it, as a matter of fact. And somehow
this warm glow we feel when we are praised or when our name is in print is
something of the vitamin A to our ego. Nobody is unhappy when they are praised,
even if they know they don't deserve it and even if they don't believe it. The
only unhappy people about praise is when that praise is going too much toward
somebody else. (That’s right) But everybody likes to be praised because of this
real drum major instinct.
Now the presence of the drum major instinct is why so many people are "joiners."
You know, there are some people who just join everything. And it's really a
quest for attention and recognition and importance. And they get names that give
them that impression. So you get your groups, and they become the "Grand
Patron," and the little fellow who is henpecked at home needs a chance to be the
"Most Worthy of the Most Worthy" of something. It is the drum major impulse and
longing that runs the gamut of human life. And so we see it everywhere, this
quest for recognition. And we join things, overjoin really, that we think that
we will find that recognition in.
Now the presence of this instinct explains why we are so often taken by
advertisers. You know, those gentlemen of massive verbal persuasion. And they
have a way of saying things to you that kind of gets you into buying. In order
to be a man of distinction, you must drink this whiskey. In order to make your
neighbors envious, you must drive this type of car. (Make it plain) In order to
be lovely to love you must wear this kind of lipstick or this kind of perfume.
And you know, before you know it, you're just buying that stuff. (Yes) That's
the way the advertisers do it.
I got a letter the other day, and it was a new magazine coming out. And it
opened up, "Dear Dr. King: As you know, you are on many mailing lists. And you
are categorized as highly intelligent, progressive, a lover of the arts and the
sciences, and I know you will want to read what I have to say." Of course I did.
After you said all of that and explained me so exactly, of course I wanted to
read it. [laughter]
But very seriously, it goes through life; the drum major instinct is real. (Yes)
And you know what else it causes to happen? It often causes us to live above our
means. (Make it plain) It's nothing but the drum major instinct. Do you ever see
people buy cars that they can't even begin to buy in terms of their income?
(Amen) [laughter] You've seen people riding around in Cadillacs and Chryslers
who don't earn enough to have a good T-Model Ford. (Make it plain) But it feeds
a repressed ego.
You know, economists tell us that your automobile should not cost more than half
of your annual income. So if you make an income of five thousand dollars, your
car shouldn't cost more than about twenty-five hundred. That's just good
economics. And if it's a family of two, and both members of the family make ten
thousand dollars, they would have to make out with one car. That would be good
economics, although it's often inconvenient. But so often, haven't you seen
people making five thousand dollars a year and driving a car that costs six
thousand? And they wonder why their ends never meet. [laughter] That's a fact.
Now the economists also say that your house shouldn't cost—if you're buying a
house, it shouldn't cost more than twice your income. That's based on the
economy and how you would make ends meet. So, if you have an income of five
thousand dollars, it's kind of difficult in this society. But say it's a family
with an income of ten thousand dollars, the house shouldn't cost much more than
twenty thousand. Well, I've seen folk making ten thousand dollars, living in a
forty- and fifty-thousand-dollar house. And you know they just barely make it.
They get a check every month somewhere, and they owe all of that out before it
comes in. Never have anything to put away for rainy days.
But now the problem is, it is the drum major instinct. And you know, you see
people over and over again with the drum major instinct taking them over. And
they just live their lives trying to outdo the Joneses. (Amen) They got to get
this coat because this particular coat is a little better and a little
better-looking than Mary's coat. And I got to drive this car because it's
something about this car that makes my car a little better than my neighbor's
car. (Amen) I know a man who used to live in a thirty-five-thousand-dollar
house. And other people started building thirty-five-thousand-dollar houses, so
he built a seventy-five-thousand-dollar house. And then somebody else built a
seventy-five-thousand-dollar house, and he built a hundred-thousand-dollar
house. And I don't know where he's going to end up if he's going to live his
life trying to keep up with the Joneses.
There comes a time that the drum major instinct can become destructive. (Make it
plain) And that's where I want to move now. I want to move to the point of
saying that if this instinct is not harnessed, it becomes a very dangerous,
pernicious instinct. For instance, if it isn’t harnessed, it causes one's
personality to become distorted. I guess that's the most damaging aspect of it:
what it does to the personality. If it isn't harnessed, you will end up day in
and day out trying to deal with your ego problem by boasting. Have you ever
heard people that—you know, and I'm sure you've met them—that really become
sickening because they just sit up all the time talking about themselves. (Amen)
And they just boast and boast and boast, and that's the person who has not
harnessed the drum major instinct.
And then it does other things to the personality. It causes you to lie about who
you know sometimes. (Amen, Make it plain) There are some people who are
influence peddlers. And in their attempt to deal with the drum major instinct,
they have to try to identify with the so-called big-name people. (Yeah, Make it
plain) And if you're not careful, they will make you think they know somebody
that they don't really know. (Amen) They know them well, they sip tea with them,
and they this-and-that. That happens to people.
And the other thing is that it causes one to engage ultimately in activities
that are merely used to get attention. Criminologists tell us that some people
are driven to crime because of this drum major instinct. They don't feel that
they are getting enough attention through the normal channels of social
behavior, and so they turn to anti-social behavior in order to get attention, in
order to feel important. (Yeah) And so they get that gun, and before they know
it they robbed a bank in a quest for recognition, in a quest for importance.
And then the final great tragedy of the distorted personality is the fact that
when one fails to harness this instinct, (Glory to God) he ends up trying to
push others down in order to push himself up. (Amen) And whenever you do that,
you engage in some of the most vicious activities. You will spread evil,
vicious, lying gossip on people, because you are trying to pull them down in
order to push yourself up. (Make it plain) And the great issue of life is to
harness the drum major instinct.
Now the other problem is, when you don't harness the drum major instinct—this
uncontrolled aspect of it—is that it leads to snobbish exclusivism. It leads to
snobbish exclusivism. (Make it plain) And you know, this is the danger of social
clubs and fraternities—I'm in a fraternity; I'm in two or three—for sororities
and all of these, I'm not talking against them. I'm saying it's the danger. The
danger is that they can become forces of classism and exclusivism where somehow
you get a degree of satisfaction because you are in something exclusive. And
that's fulfilling something, you know—that I'm in this fraternity, and it's the
best fraternity in the world, and everybody can't get in this fraternity. So it
ends up, you know, a very exclusive kind of thing.
And you know, that can happen with the church; I know churches get in that bind
sometimes. (Amen, Make it plain) I've been to churches, you know, and they say,
"We have so many doctors, and so many school teachers, and so many lawyers, and
so many businessmen in our church." And that's fine, because doctors need to go
to church, and lawyers, and businessmen, teachers—they ought to be in church.
But they say that—even the preacher sometimes will go all through that—they say
that as if the other people don't count. (Amen)
And the church is the one place where a doctor ought to forget that he's a
doctor. The church is the one place where a Ph.D. ought to forget that he's a
Ph.D. (Yes) The church is the one place that the school teacher ought to forget
the degree she has behind her name. The church is the one place where the lawyer
ought to forget that he's a lawyer. And any church that violates the "whosoever
will, let him come" doctrine is a dead, cold church, (Yes) and nothing but a
little social club with a thin veneer of religiosity.
When the church is true to its nature, (Whoo) it says, "Whosoever will, let him
come." (Yes) And it does not supposed to satisfy the perverted uses of the drum
major instinct. It's the one place where everybody should be the same, standing
before a common master and savior. (Yes, sir) And a recognition grows out of
this—that all men are brothers because they are children (Yes) of a common
father.
The drum major instinct can lead to exclusivism in one's thinking and can lead
one to feel that because he has some training, he's a little better than that
person who doesn't have it. Or because he has some economic security, that he's
a little better than that person who doesn't have it. And that's the
uncontrolled, perverted use of the drum major instinct.
Now the other thing is, that it leads to tragic—and we've seen it happen so
often—tragic race prejudice. Many who have written about this problem—Lillian
Smith used to say it beautifully in some of her books. And she would say it to
the point of getting men and women to see the source of the problem. Do you know
that a lot of the race problem grows out of the drum major instinct? A need that
some people have to feel superior. A need that some people have to feel that
they are first, and to feel that their white skin ordained them to be first.
(Make it plain, today, ‘cause I’m against it, so help me God) And they have said
over and over again in ways that we see with our own eyes. In fact, not too long
ago, a man down in Mississippi said that God was a charter member of the White
Citizens Council. And so God being the charter member means that everybody who's
in that has a kind of divinity, a kind of superiority. And think of what has
happened in history as a result of this perverted use of the drum major
instinct. It has led to the most tragic prejudice, the most tragic expressions
of man's inhumanity to man.
The other day I was saying, I always try to do a little converting when I'm in
jail. And when we were in jail in Birmingham the other day, the white wardens
and all enjoyed coming around the cell to talk about the race problem. And they
were showing us where we were so wrong demonstrating. And they were showing us
where segregation was so right. And they were showing us where intermarriage was
so wrong. So I would get to preaching, and we would get to talking—calmly,
because they wanted to talk about it. And then we got down one day to the
point—that was the second or third day—to talk about where they lived, and how
much they were earning. And when those brothers told me what they were earning,
I said, "Now, you know what? You ought to be marching with us. [laughter] You're
just as poor as Negroes." And I said, "You are put in the position of supporting
your oppressor, because through prejudice and blindness, you fail to see that
the same forces that oppress Negroes in American society oppress poor white
people. (Yes) And all you are living on is the satisfaction of your skin being
white, and the drum major instinct of thinking that you are somebody big because
you are white. And you're so poor you can't send your children to school. You
ought to be out here marching with every one of us every time we have a march."
Now that's a fact. That the poor white has been put into this position, where
through blindness and prejudice, (Make it plain) he is forced to support his
oppressors. And the only thing he has going for him is the false feeling that
he’s superior because his skin is white—and can't hardly eat and make his ends
meet week in and week out. (Amen)
And not only does this thing go into the racial struggle, it goes into the
struggle between nations. And I would submit to you this morning that what is
wrong in the world today is that the nations of the world are engaged in a
bitter, colossal contest for supremacy. And if something doesn't happen to stop
this trend, I'm sorely afraid that we won't be here to talk about Jesus Christ
and about God and about brotherhood too many more years. (Yeah) If somebody
doesn't bring an end to this suicidal thrust that we see in the world today,
none of us are going to be around, because somebody's going to make the mistake
through our senseless blunderings of dropping a nuclear bomb somewhere. And then
another one is going to drop. And don't let anybody fool you, this can happen
within a matter of seconds. (Amen) They have twenty-megaton bombs in Russia
right now that can destroy a city as big as New York in three seconds, with
everybody wiped away, and every building. And we can do the same thing to Russia
and China.
But this is why we are drifting. And we are drifting there because nations are
caught up with the drum major instinct. "I must be first." "I must be supreme."
"Our nation must rule the world." (Preach it) And I am sad to say that the
nation in which we live is the supreme culprit. And I'm going to continue to say
it to America, because I love this country too much to see the drift that it has
taken.
God didn't call America to do what she's doing in the world now. (Preach it,
preach it) God didn't call America to engage in a senseless, unjust war as the
war in Vietnam. And we are criminals in that war. We’ve committed more war
crimes almost than any nation in the world, and I'm going to continue to say it.
And we won't stop it because of our pride and our arrogance as a nation.
But God has a way of even putting nations in their place. (Amen) The God that I
worship has a way of saying, "Don't play with me." (Yes) He has a way of saying,
as the God of the Old Testament used to say to the Hebrews, "Don’t play with me,
Israel. Don't play with me, Babylon. (Yes) Be still and know that I'm God. And
if you don't stop your reckless course, I'll rise up and break the backbone of
your power." (Yes) And that can happen to America. (Yes) Every now and then I go
back and read Gibbons' Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire. And when I come and
look at America, I say to myself, the parallels are frightening. And we have
perverted the drum major instinct.
But let me rush on to my conclusion, because I want you to see what Jesus was
really saying. What was the answer that Jesus gave these men? It's very
interesting. One would have thought that Jesus would have condemned them. One
would have thought that Jesus would have said, "You are out of your place. You
are selfish. Why would you raise such a question?"
But that isn't what Jesus did; he did something altogether different. He said in
substance, "Oh, I see, you want to be first. You want to be great. You want to
be important. You want to be significant. Well, you ought to be. If you're going
to be my disciple, you must be." But he reordered priorities. And he said, "Yes,
don't give up this instinct. It's a good instinct if you use it right. (Yes)
It's a good instinct if you don't distort it and pervert it. Don't give it up.
Keep feeling the need for being important. Keep feeling the need for being
first. But I want you to be first in love. (Amen) I want you to be first in
moral excellence. I want you to be first in generosity. That is what I want you
to do."
And he transformed the situation by giving a new definition of greatness. And
you know how he said it? He said, "Now brethren, I can't give you greatness. And
really, I can't make you first." This is what Jesus said to James and John. "You
must earn it. True greatness comes not by favoritism, but by fitness. And the
right hand and the left are not mine to give, they belong to those who are
prepared." (Amen)
And so Jesus gave us a new norm of greatness. If you want to be
important—wonderful. If you want to be recognized—wonderful. If you want to be
great—wonderful. But recognize that he who is greatest among you shall be your
servant. (Amen) That's a new definition of greatness.
And this morning, the thing that I like about it: by giving that definition of
greatness, it means that everybody can be great, (Everybody) because everybody
can serve. (Amen) You don't have to have a college degree to serve. (All right)
You don't have to make your subject and your verb agree to serve. You don't have
to know about Plato and Aristotle to serve. You don't have to know Einstein's
theory of relativity to serve. You don't have to know the second theory of
thermodynamics in physics to serve. (Amen) You only need a heart full of grace,
(Yes, sir, Amen) a soul generated by love. (Yes) And you can be that servant.
I know a man—and I just want to talk about him a minute, and maybe you will
discover who I'm talking about as I go down the way (Yeah) because he was a
great one. And he just went about serving. He was born in an obscure village,
(Yes, sir) the child of a poor peasant woman. And then he grew up in still
another obscure village, where he worked as a carpenter until he was thirty
years old. (Amen) Then for three years, he just got on his feet, and he was an
itinerant preacher. And he went about doing some things. He didn't have much. He
never wrote a book. He never held an office. He never had a family. (Yes) He
never owned a house. He never went to college. He never visited a big city. He
never went two hundred miles from where he was born. He did none of the usual
things that the world would associate with greatness. He had no credentials but
himself.
He was only thirty-three when the tide of public opinion turned against him.
They called him a rabble-rouser. They called him a troublemaker. They said he
was an agitator. (Glory to God) He practiced civil disobedience; he broke
injunctions. And so he was turned over to his enemies and went through the
mockery of a trial. And the irony of it all is that his friends turned him over
to them. (Amen) One of his closest friends denied him. Another of his friends
turned him over to his enemies. And while he was dying, the people who killed
him gambled for his clothing, the only possession that he had in the world.
(Lord help him) When he was dead he was buried in a borrowed tomb, through the
pity of a friend.
Nineteen centuries have come and gone and today he stands as the most
influential figure that ever entered human history. All of the armies that ever
marched, all the navies that ever sailed, all the parliaments that ever sat, and
all the kings that ever reigned put together (Yes) have not affected the life of
man on this earth (Amen) as much as that one solitary life. His name may be a
familiar one. (Jesus) But today I can hear them talking about him. Every now and
then somebody says, "He's King of Kings." (Yes) And again I can hear somebody
saying, "He's Lord of Lords." Somewhere else I can hear somebody saying, "In
Christ there is no East nor West." (Yes) And then they go on and talk about, "In
Him there's no North and South, but one great Fellowship of Love throughout the
whole wide world." He didn't have anything. (Amen) He just went around serving
and doing good.
This morning, you can be on his right hand and his left hand if you serve.
(Amen) It's the only way in.
Every now and then I guess we all think realistically (Yes, sir) about that day
when we will be victimized with what is life's final common denominator—that
something that we call death. We all think about it. And every now and then I
think about my own death and I think about my own funeral. And I don't think of
it in a morbid sense. And every now and then I ask myself, "What is it that I
would want said?" And I leave the word to you this morning.
If any of you are around when I have to meet my day, I don’t want a long
funeral. And if you get somebody to deliver the eulogy, tell them not to talk
too long. (Yes) And every now and then I wonder what I want them to say. Tell
them not to mention that I have a Nobel Peace Prize—that isn’t important. Tell
them not to mention that I have three or four hundred other awards—that’s not
important. Tell them not to mention where I went to school. (Yes)
I'd like somebody to mention that day that Martin Luther King, Jr., tried to
give his life serving others. (Yes)
I'd like for somebody to say that day that Martin Luther King, Jr., tried to
love somebody.
I want you to say that day that I tried to be right on the war question. (Amen)
I want you to be able to say that day that I did try to feed the hungry. (Yes)
And I want you to be able to say that day that I did try in my life to clothe
those who were naked. (Yes)
I want you to say on that day that I did try in my life to visit those who were
in prison. (Lord)
I want you to say that I tried to love and serve humanity. (Yes)
Yes, if you want to say that I was a drum major, say that I was a drum major for
justice. (Amen) Say that I was a drum major for peace. (Yes) I was a drum major
for righteousness. And all of the other shallow things will not matter. (Yes) I
won't have any money to leave behind. I won't have the fine and luxurious things
of life to leave behind. But I just want to leave a committed life behind.
(Amen) And that's all I want to say.
If I can help somebody as I pass along,
If I can cheer somebody with a word or song,
If I can show somebody he's traveling wrong,
Then my living will not be in vain.
If I can do my duty as a Christian ought,
If I can bring salvation to a world once wrought,
If I can spread the message as the master taught,
Then my living will not be in vain.
Yes, Jesus, I want to be on your right or your left side, (Yes) not for any
selfish reason. I want to be on your right or your left side, not in terms of
some political kingdom or ambition. But I just want to be there in love and in
justice and in truth and in commitment to others, so that we can make of this
old world a new world.